I'm a pleasure educator and intimacy mentor who is excited to normalize erotic expression. I'm inspired to create space for people to find comfort, delight, and excitement in their bodies and their sex. 

As a polyamorous human, I love to challenge the societal norms around what relationships “should” look like - and support people to discover who they are and what they want in intimate connections.

I’m a highly sexual human who invites others to expand their capacity for pleasure and explore the edges of their erotic selves.

Pleasure Educator & Intimacy Mentor

sara downing

about sara

Supporting your journey towards feeling at home in your body

expand your capacity for intimacy

A brave space to expand and explore your intimacy and pleasure for individuals, couples, and polycules. These sessions can include anything from coaching to cuddling, to erotic experiencing.  


1:1 personal sessions

in person sessions for curious humans

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My wish is for everyone to feel safe and at home in their bodies, embracing pleasure as a basic human right. I believe in teaching people about their bodies and empowering them to connect with their inner strength and responsibility for their experiences.

I trust in the universe’s love and care, I see the goodness in humanity and want to share that sense of safety and comfort with others.


My Philosophy

It radiated from her from the moment we met. Sara is a truly caring person and puts her whole self into facilitating, making it the best experience for each participant. She is the complete opposite of the "cookie cutter / one size fits all" approach. I can't recommend Sara enough. I don't even have to think twice about signing up for any of her offerings.

The first thing I think of when I think of Sara is her warmth... 

If you are lucky enough to work with her, not only will you have bucket loads of fun, but her presence will hold you strong like a Mama Bear. Bright, savvy, committed, and caring. She is an example of what a skillful workshop facilitator looks like.

Sara is a rockstar. 

She is one of the most embodied, loving people you will ever meet. She is always positive, full of joy and very informed on yoni and pleasure education. She naturally creates the most safe space to explore your pleasure and go through transformative experiences. 

I’ve known Sara most of my life and she has become a second mom to me.